Have Meaning

"This is mine!", "He's mine", "all mine"

What it has.?
Ownership menimbalkan desire and obligation to keep and care.

For example, an example of the contrast between ours and do not, that is where tinggl .. examples of housing that can be compared to its ownership of hotels and homes. When we stayed at the hotel, which of course we are just renting and not ours, it will make us not so concerned about the situation. If the bathroom or a bed we mess with very severe, most we do is call a cleaning service to mop floors, clean the bathtub, etc.. Except maybe just for small things or some people.
Unlike the case with the house. But the house itself was still divided into two, namely our own homes and homes that we just riding like kids who just stay at home parents.

An example of this phenomenon is happening and tersadari ownership by me. :

That is when I was entrusted to care for a pet deposit of friends, and I began to do something to keep and care. Probably originally from a sense of unfamiliarity caring for animals, but over time it used to be done. There is a desire for another that appears, it turns out. "This is my pet, it's mine, I will keep as much as I look after myself and make this animal still alive"
Apparently feeling the urge of an obligation of ownership is really incredible.

Maybe that's where the sense of belonging. A desire and responsibility to maintain care, make better, on something that is entrusted to us.

And I think no one has the feeling to have something, so long as accompanied by a full sense of awareness and responsibility to have it.
Want to have a loved one. Will make us a big responsibility towards the people we love it. Take care, guard, making him always happy with us, and make him as ours the best.
And hopefully have a sincere desire is not mixed with the desire to simply have and the things to be exhibited and disombongkan.